![]() He’s more like, I don’t know how to say it… like rigid? He’s sometimes like a grumpy old man I guess. She never raised a flag that I was being abused. I find it irritating and makes me anxious. He just likes to point out things and flaws. I don’t have to and he doesn’t ask for any justification. I feel like I have to justify my choices. He’s not angry at me, usually he’ll make comments on how groceries don’t sell fresh produce like they used too. He’ll point out the spot that is not fresh on the herbs. He just says « oh! X brand was not available? ». He doesn’t bring me down or insult me when I don’t purchase « the right brand ». I'm not implying you are the reasons she acts this way, but maybe it would be something to look into.Įdit: oh boy! I made my boyfriend sound like an abuser. That's my personal reason why I sometimes seem uncertain. I am working hard on not giving a flying fudge of his comments, but it hard. I know how to freaking do the groceries, yet, I feel like I lose all my self confidence because of his attitude. Every time I do the grocery, I become super anxious because I think of all the things he's going to whine about when I get home. The fresh herbs I bought are not *fresh* enough for him, I didn't purchase the right brand of pasta etc. I come back from grocery shopping and there is always something wrong. My boyfriend complains a lot when things are not done *his* way. She's going to work on it, and I'm going to try to be less critical when she asks for help or does things halfway. As most of you said, it was anxiety based on stress. I had a very positive conversation with my wife. I think she should try herself before looking for help.Įdit: Thank you all for your help. Tl dr: wife needs help with every little problem. ![]() I explain it to her, but can't seem to get her to understand without getting even more frustrated. The thing is, she used to be more independent, but now relies on me for every little thing. I can't imagine calling my wife about a problem like that before trying to fix it myself. She calls me, but is able to figure out the solution before she can even explain what's happening. She's in the kitchen with the mac and cheese - I figure she should be able to figure out if we have enough.Īnother one: Car radio wouldn't shut off when the car was off. She texts me asking if we need to make more or if we have enough. Example: She was cooking mac and cheese for the kids and spilled some of it.
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